Kindness you can give yourself

The loving voice you always deserved.

Nurturedme is a gentle daily companion that speaks to you the way a loving parent, grandparent or friend would. Choose their voice, give them the traits you needed, and learn to nurture yourself, one day at a time.

Coming soon to iPhone and Android. Made in England.

Why Nurturedme

Many of us never had the steady, loving voice we needed. It's not too late to give it to yourself.

General chatbots answer questions. Meditation apps help you breathe. Nurturedme does something different: it helps you reparent yourself, with a voice that knows how you like to be loved.

A childhood that left gaps

Hear the words you deserved: "I'm proud of you." "You're safe with me." "It wasn't your fault." Every single day.

Feeling alone

Newly single, living alone, far from family or simply lonely. A warm voice that's always there, morning and night.

Grief and endings

For someone who has died, a relationship that ended, a child you hoped for, or someone you're estranged from. Somewhere gentle to put the love that has nowhere to go.

How it works

Three steps to a kinder inner voice

1

Choose your voice

A mother, father, grandparent, stepmother, stepfather, friend, best friend, mentor, brother, sister, or a loving daughter or son. Whoever comforts you most.

2

Make them yours

Pick five traits, like Warm, Funny or Protective, and choose what they call you: darling, poppet, love, or just your name.

3

Check in each day

Tell them how you feel. They'll answer like someone who loves you: "Oh darling, I'm so sorry you're feeling sad. Do you want to talk about it?"

The voices

Twelve voices for you to talk to

Every voice remembers its own traits and what it calls you. Your grandmother can be Warm, Patient and Funny and call you poppet, while your father is Steady and Proud of you. Every reply names your feeling first, then offers safety, trust and encouragement.

MotherFatherGrandmotherGrandfatherStepmotherStepfatherFriendBest friendMentorBrotherSisterDaughter or son

Pick five traits

Warm · Gentle · Patient · Protective · Encouraging · Reassuring · Affectionate · Calm · Wise · Funny · Playful · Cheerful · Honest · Straight-talking · Down-to-earth · Practical · Loyal · Proud of me

On a hard day

I'm feeling sad today.
Mother · Warm, ProtectiveOh darling, I'm so sorry you're feeling sad. Do you want to talk about it? Tell me how I can help.

On a good day

I got the job!
Grandfather · Wise, FunnyOh, I'm so glad, my dear. I'm proud of you, you know. Now, don't go letting it go to your head!

The app

Four gentle spaces, one loving voice

Your chosen voice walks with you through every part of the day.

Feel

Check in with how you feel, see your week, read a kind truth for today, then follow your day from a morning ritual to an evening thank-you.

Explore Feel →

Talk

Talk to your voice any time. Or choose Just listen: no advice, no judgement, and when you're done, let your words drift away.

Explore Talk →

Heal

Grieve gently with letters you can keep or let go. Breathe with Dot. Step outside for ten minutes of birdsong, roses and autumn leaves.

Explore Heal →

Keep

A Memory box for the little things: their laugh, their smell, Sunday lunch. A Gratitude jar that fills up over time. Kind cards, and gifts you send yourself.

Explore Keep →

Your skies

Feelings are weather. You are the sky.

Each daily check-in becomes that day's sky. Over time, Nurturedme shows you what's easy to forget on a hard day: the storms always pass. "Monday was stormy. Today is lighter."

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Today

What we're designing for

Small daily moments that add up

Feel less alone

A caring voice that's there at 7am and at midnight.

Kinder self-talk

Hear loving words often enough that they start to become your own.

Proof that feelings pass

See your own skies change from storm to sun.

Memories kept safe

A growing catalogue of the people and moments that made you.

Everyday joy

Smell the coffee, smile at a stranger, buy a bunch of flowers.

Nurturedme is a wellbeing companion. It isn't therapy, and it isn't a medical or crisis service.

Privacy and safety

Built with privacy at its heart

What you share with Nurturedme is some of the most personal writing you'll ever do. We design for that from day one.

Read our privacy notice →

Your words stay with you

Journals, letters and memories are yours alone.

Let it go means gone

When you let your words drift away, nothing is stored.

No ads. Never sold.

No advertising, no tracking, no selling your information.

Help is always close

If you're struggling, Nurturedme points you to real people who can help, like Samaritans on 116 123.

Be one of the first

Join the waitlist and we'll let you know the moment Nurturedme is ready.

We'll only ever email you about Nurturedme. Read our privacy notice.